Dwelling Together in Unity

The greatest challenge of playing on a team is that you have to depend on others in order to win. That is why some of the most gifted and talented individuals don’t excel in such team settings as sports, the academic & business worlds, churches, and families. One of the greatest reasons for this underachievement is the tendency of individuals to fight in an attempt to change others and to get their way. Many times this occurs over matters that are not significant.

Former pastor and present leadership consultant John Maxwell gives these 5 disciplines for discerning when to fight for change and when to sacrifice oneself for the team’s success:

1. Spend time with people who are different than you. You will be less likely to judge or battle others.
2. In matters of personal preference or taste, give in. Save yourself for what really matters.
3. Don’t take things too personally. Remember, hurting people hurt people, and are easily hurt by others.
4. Practice the 101% principle. Whenever possible, find the 1% you do agree on in a difficult situation, and give it 100% of your effort.
5. Be a servant leader. “If your mindset is to serve rather than to be served, you will likely encounter less conflict.”

The Psalmist is so enamored by the importance of peace & unity that he gives one whole psalm (Psalm 133) to its praise—“Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!” He knew the refreshing power of its presence.

Father, bless we your people this day to be people of unity in all the gatherings and groups we find ourselves a within. May others be refreshed by our presence.